Catholic Church: Faith Is Alive and Well
…But Mass attendance is suffering
I recently read an article that said faith is strong among the young in the Catholic Chruch, based upon a survey given by the American Bishops just prior to the Pope Benedict’s visit to the US. That article also brushed upon a general lack of observance of Catholics for going to weekly Mass. The survey reported that those who don’t attend Mass regularly believe they can be good Catholics without going to Mass. Then, in response to the survey, the Archbishop of San Francisco claimed that Catholics need more instruction in “what it means to be Catholic.” With all due respect to the esteemed bishop, more instruction is the last thing we Catholics need. We already have a Catechesis that covers practically every aspect of living a Catholic life. Do we actually need more instruction?
If Catholics identify themselves as being Catholic and living a Catholic life, but don’t feel that it’s necessary to go to Mass to be a good Catholic, no amount of instruction is going to compel them to go to Mass.
Don’t get me wrong. I go to Mass weekly, not just because I happen to play music at Mass, but because I love the Mass. I love the rites and the traditions, and the sacred mystery of the transmutation of the bread and wine. But I can honestly say, without being boastful, that I’m an exception to the rule.
So why do many Catholics feel that they can be good Catholics without going to Mass? Well, having worked with young adults and teens for most of my life, I can tell you it’s not due to a lack of instruction in “Catholic-ness.” It’s due to a lack of context. For too many years, the Church has operated on an unsaid tenet of patronizing its constituents; that is, “Let me tell you what’s good for you.” Unfortunately, most of the people who are saying this are decades older than the young people they’re saying it to, and their values are also decades old. So let’s face it: The young people aren’t buying it. So it’s no surprise to me that Mass attendance among teens and young adults has dropped.\
Some leaders use analogy to compel participation in Mass. One great one I heard came from the pastor of my parish. He related that when we go to Mass, we form the Body of Christ. When someone is missing, it’s akin to having a part of the body missing. Great analogy, but still not compelling enough to get young people to go to Mass. Why? Simply because it’s just a gentler way of expressing CGS, or “Catholic Guilt Syndrome.”
In this day and age, with all the outside distractions and activities with which to compete, Church leaders and parents are hard-pressed to find ways to get their kids to attend Mass. Instruction will bore them; guilt will anger them; and forcing them will just make them resentful. In my mind, there’s only one thing that will get kids and young adults to attend Mass: Inspire them.
A major step in getting our young people inspired to go to Mass involves providing the active promotion of opportunities for them to participate in the parish liturgical and service community. The thought is that if they’re involved and feel like part of the community, they’ll be inspired to be an active member, and that includes going to Mass. Mind you, you can’t limit the opportunities just because they’re a certain age. For instance, my son Liam was recently confirmed. Prior to that, he and his classmates attended a confirmation retreat to help them prepare. At the end of the retreat, they were handed out surveys of ministries in which they could participate. The survey only had two choices: Eucharistic Ministry and Usher. Where was Music Ministry? Where was Visitation to the Sick? Where was Parish Life Group? Where was Youth Ministry? Give me a break!
I know that I’m sounding like I’m picking on my own parish. But bear in mind that my parish isn’t the only one at fault of this. It almost seems as if most of the American Catholic Church as a whole doesn’t have enough trust in its younger members to provide them with avenues to participate in their very own communities, so it’s no small wonder that our young people don’t feel part of theirs.
Notice that I didn’t mention that churches should play music that’s more in line with what young people like. While this has some significance, it’s still not enough to get them to go to Mass regularly. It’ll appeal to some, but it still won’t be enough. I also believe that creating a Mass just for young people is the wrong approach because in this case all a parish is doing is pigeonholing the young people into a Mass of their own. Indeed, there are a lot of positives to this, but if that’s the only opportunity you give them to participate in the parish community, you’re just not getting it, and ultimately, it you’ll fail in growing their numbers.
But besides providing opportunities, there’s one important thing we all have to change that I believe will have a positive effect not only on youth and young adults but on all age groups as a whole, and that is simply taking a more holistic view of our parish and try to avoid age stratification as much as possible. For instance, over the years, I’ve heard many people say that youth and young adults are “the future of the Church.” Know this: They ARE NOT the future. They ARE the Church. WE are the Church! “We” doesn’t just mean the adults. It has to mean EVERYONE TOGETHER!
By taking a more holistic approach to their communities, parishes can avoid a lot of the alienation that occurs as a result of catering to specific age groups, or in the case of youth and young adults, not providing context for them. It’s not an easy task, but parish leadership needs to learn how to embrace and include the entire community as a whole. Even though I mildly bashed my parish above, I love the fact that at my own parish we’ve begun to take steps toward this, by making First Holy Communion a part of the regular Mass schedule over the course of a couple of weekends, with different groups of kids, and not done at a “special” Mass. This very act reinforces the idea that our kids are part of the community. I applaud our new pastor for recognizing the need to do this. Was there some grumbling on the part of those who didn’t have kids making their First Holy Communion? Sure there was, but as this will be a regular, yearly event, they’ll get used to it eventually, and will hopefully understand the importance of doing First Holy Communion in this manner.
Admittedly, none of what I’ve suggested will be easy. Inertia, especially in organizations as long-lived as our beloved Church, is not an easy thing to break. But if our Church leadership wants more participation, they need to stop trying to instruct and start inspiring. Once you get people inspired and attending you can instruct them all you want.
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